Let’s see if I have this right…you went to a good school, got decent grades, landed a great job, you’re making good money, but deep inside…you feel as inspired as a mushroom. It’s the same routine day after day, week after week, and frankly, you are sick and tired of it. Or maybe you’re not quite there yet, but you wife sure is, and you know it’s time to make a change.
Right now you are thinking…how the heck did I get here, and what can I do about it?
Well, the answer to the first part is easy, and it’s not your fault. You see, you and I and most everyone else on this planet have been lied to, big time…
Most of us are taught to believe that there is a “secret” to being successful, and that without that secret, we are destined to a life of struggle, hardship, and financial misery. So we search for the secret and just when we think we have found it, just when we think that we have arrived, we see our neighbor moving to a bigger house and driving a newer car. We see our co-worker getting the promotion, earning more money and sitting in corner office. We look at other couples and see that they have a special something in their relationship that is missing in our own relationship. And just like that…you feel like a failure and once again begin your search for that elusive secret of success.
In my years of research and study of the most successful people on the planet, I have discovered that you and I have been taught a bunch of lies. The truth is…THERE IS NO SECRET TO SUCCESS! That’s right! We were taught to spend our lives chasing success, and while we may have acquired a certain level of wealth, status, and satisfaction, the reality is that most people are no happier now than when they started. Most people are still wondering how to become more successful. Let’s see if this is true for you:
Are you 100% completely satisfied with:
- The quality of your life?
- The results in your business?
- Your career choice and outlook for the future?
- Your current level of income?
- The quality of your personal relationships?
- Your physical health and well-being?
If you answered “NO!” to any of these questions, it’s because you have believed the lies. You have been chasing success for all these years without ever realizing that you are already successful. You do not need to pursue what you already are. That…is the real secret.
Life is not about chasing success. Life is about waking up each day knowing who you are and what your purpose is. Life is about going to bed each night knowing that you are constantly evolving into the person you are meant to be. Life is enjoying a lifestyle from which no vacation is necessary. This is what I call “Living Remarkably.”
Let’s connect, and I will give you the time-tested and proven strategies of the most successful people on the planet, in my complimentary audio program: “Secrets to Living Remarkably.”
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Episode SGS-0033 – Detective Daniel Gomez: A Look Behind The Shades
Welcome to Episode 33 of The Stevie G. Success Show: The #1 Personal Achievement Podcast, where we bring you guest interviews designed to help you live more, play more, and rock the world.
For those of you around the world who has been following us and have subscribed to the show, I am grateful that you are here with us today as we convene for 2016. We took a several month hiatus for several months during the end of 2015 as I was busy promoting my book “How to Live Remarkably: Proven Strategies to Solve Your Problems, Make Better Decisions and Eliminate Stress,” which hit #1 in the U.S. and #4 in the U.K. thanks to all of you!
What often happens to us solo entrepreneurs and business owner’s, is that our business goes thorough seasons or better described as peaks and valleys. When we are in a valley season and there is not much going on, we have time to water our projects and tend to them appropriately. However, when we are in the peak season, everything seems to be happening at once with talks and appearances and people asking for coaching, and at least in my case, I found that I had to let go of a few projects so that I could attend to what I found were new and demanding responsibilities that accompany having written a #1 best seller book. So, that was the case with the show, however, now we are back!
My guest today is Detective Daniel Gomez, a former police officer with the City of Dallas and licensed private investigator who is known internationally as the Chief Detective on the reality television series, “Cheaters.”
If you are not familiar with the program, it is a reality show where Detective Daniel Gomez goes out into the streets with a camera crew to collect video and audio evidence of people who are engaged in having illicit affairs. Now while the show is pure entertainment for a lot of people, it serves to show us the enormity of the infidelity problem that exists around the world. Now in an upcoming show we are going to be addressing the topic of romantic relationships and how to avoid being the one who cheats, or from being the one who is cheated upon.
For today however, I want to introduce you to a real life detective, someone who probably knows more about the topic of cheating and infidelity than anyone. Not unlike his television persona, Daniel devotes his career to helping people who find themselves in a bad relationship through his own real life Detective Agency. Daniel is also an author of the Book “Play to Win” which is a practical guide to help men and women identify the signs and patterns of a cheater, what to do when the signs appear, and how to either save the situation or walk away completely.
So if you have wondered…what kind of person does it take to work with victims of infidelity and confront those who are abusing their relationships? What kind of personality does it take to be involved, day in and day out, with infidelity cases which are one of the most emotionally charged and volatile areas of relationships? How does someone like this maintain balance and sanity in such an explosive environment?
Join me now as we look behind the shades of Detective Daniel Gomez.
About Detective Daniel Gomez:
Detective Danny Gomez is a Texan, born and raised. Growing up in Dallas, Danny pursued a career in law enforcement and received a Bachelor’s Degree in Criminal Justice from Dallas Baptist University. After graduation he entered law enforcement and served 10 years in a major metropolitan area. Throughout his time with law enforcement, Danny also furthered his interests in becoming a private detective. His invaluable work as a law enforcement officer helped him make the decision to work in the private sector.
After many experiences of dealing with domestic and family matters as an officer, Detective Gomez specializes in these issues, particularly infidelity investigations. It was because of this focused work he came to the attention of Executive Producer Bobby Goldstein. After meeting with Bobby Goldstein, Danny Gomez was pleased to join the team at Cheaters as lead detective for the show.
Danny is proud to have spent over 12 years with Cheaters as Chief Detective. The continued success of the show has allowed him to reach even higher in his work as a private detective. His work with Cheaters, as well as his agency, has made the Gomez Detective Agency the leading agency in this field.
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Thank you for listening, we look forward to helping you live more, play more, and rock the world!
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